Hebrews 10:24–25
Let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.
In Hebrews, as in all the apostolic writings, the Lord calls us to cultivate community—to build one another up, to be in each other’s lives, to consider one another, to stir one another up to love and good works, and to exhort one another so that nobody is taken away by the deceitfulness of sin. This is a call to thick community, to cultivate that rich soil where true, spiritual life can grow and bear fruit ten, fifty, and hundredfold.
With this in mind, I have four things we ought to cultivate in order to make this thick community fruitful.
First and foremost, let us all be committed to worshipping the Lord. We must each and all commit to drawing near to God steadfastly, in season and out of season. As the Apostle exhorts us, we must not forsake the assembling of ourselves together before the Lord, as is the habit of some.
The truth is: if you are not committed to worshipping God with His people, then you cannot expect the blessing of God.
If you are absent, if you take the worship of God lightly, if you have a false heart or a guilty conscience, or if you’re hollowed out by unbelief, and do not regularly draw near to God together with God’s people, then quite simply, what are you doing? Where are your priorities?
I’m not saying that there are not extraordinary Sundays where you can’t worship with God’s people, whether here or wherever you’re at. But beware of studying reasons to miss church. The Westminster Divines warn us concerning divorce, saying that men are prone to study reasons for divorce. And the same is true of the Lord’s Day. Beware of studying reasons for skipping worship, for being away from your covenant Lord. It is a slippery slope. And the end of both divorce and of forsaking the assembly of the saints is unnatural, for it cuts against God’s design for humanity.
So that’s the first habit that really must be in place: prioritize worshipping the Lord with His people.
Second, pursue brotherly affection. Paul writes of Christian love, in Colossians 3:14, “Above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection.” Love binds us to one another. If it doesn’t, then there’s no hope of cultivating distinctively Christian community, for the Spirit who animates Christians is the Spirit of Love.
If we are bound together simply by similar interests, or the latest doctrinal fad, or our favorite podcast, or by our shared grumbles about all the other churches or even society at large, that’s not going to last. Only Christian love for one another creates the actual loyalty, commitment, generosity, charitableness and joy where Christian community thrives. Everything else is sinking sand.
Cultivate love for your brothers and sisters. Put to death all that would rise up against it.
Third, we need humility. The humble man does not think of himself as having arrived. But also, he is not full of self-pity—that’s only pride in disguise. The humble man knows he is a work in progress, and he trusts that the Lord is sanctifying him. And so he welcomes others to weigh in on how he is doing.
The Apostle calls us to encourage and exhort one another—which means sometimes you are going to need to be encouraged and exhorted. You cannot always be the encourager and the exhorter. You have blindspots, too. You are also in need of sharpening words and faithful wounds of a friend. But how can you receive these things well, if you’re not humble?
So cultivate humility.
Fourth and finally, we need patience. Christian community takes time. You must be patient with yourself. You must be patient with your wife and family. You must be patient with your brothers and sisters. You must be patient with your pastor, and your elders and deacons.
Hebrews describes the Christian life as a long obedience and a long pilgrimage to a heavenly country. We are all going the distance, and like Israel out of Egypt, we are all going together with families, with small kids, with men and women, with the weak and strong, the young and old. This means we have to be patient.
So in summary: we are called to this work—to cultivate rich, thick Christian community—and in order to do this, we need to prioritize worship; brotherly affection and humility; and we must be patiently long-suffering in this work.




